Trusting the world

We often tend to trust a person we love with regard to the fact that it gets reciprocated. This is natural. This is not our mistake. We too have our right to trust our loved ones. There is no point in distrusting the person we love if he loves you back. We trust him blindly. We do not feel the need to be cautious of that person. It becomes impossible to listen negatively about him. It could be anyone-father, mother, brother, sister, spouse. Their love for us is pure. It is not a mixture of hatred, jealousy, or any kind of ill-feeling. These people will love us unconditionally. They will never demand anything no matter how much we hurt them. 

 When we trust our loved ones, it becomes important to be careful about our feelings. Our mistakes are not realized until we commit them. We trust him unconditionally that we become enthusiastic to share our life with him. The thought of suspicions does not cross our minds. This cannot be contemplated that our trust can be broken anytime. We cannot get acknowledged about him not being trustworthy. The idea of him being wrong to you becomes unexpected. This becomes a blow to our lives. 

The trust gets shattered into crystals. It cannot be glued again. The possibility to win back that trust becomes nil. This becomes injurious to our lives. We start to view every person with suspicion. The friend we are spending time with might be laughing at us behind our backs. The whole of life becomes miserable. It becomes difficult to live peacefully.

The lesson we learn is that we should be reserved for our feelings. We cannot share everything with anyone. The future is uncertain. It is not known when we can be blamed for our mistakes. The mistake of feeling belonging to him. We do not have control over anything. We cannot assume what might our loved one been thinking. It is important to keep our feelings to ourselves because the world is selfish. It is judgemental. They will judge you, laugh at you, alienate you.